🛑 Why I stopped letting my to-do list run my day


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Hi Reader,

For years, I let my to-do list decide how I felt about myself.

If I crossed everything off, it was a “good” day. If I didn’t, I felt lazy, unmotivated, or behind—even when my body was clearly asking for rest.

It took a lot of unlearning, but I finally realized that productivity isn’t just about getting things done. It’s about managing my energy in a way that’s actually sustainable.

This week’s blog post is all about how I made that shift:
👉 My Top Tips for How to Balance Rest and Productivity With Chronic Illness​

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Inside the post, I’m sharing:
âś… The energy awareness shift that changed how I plan my days
âś… How I budget my energy without guilt
âś… Why I ditched rigid routines (and what I do instead)
âś… The reason I schedule rest before I crash

If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of overdoing it and crashing, I hope this post helps you start breaking that pattern—on your own terms.

Read it here → My Top Tips for How to Balance Rest and Productivity With Chronic Illness​

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​The Complete Guide to Daily Chronic Illness Management is available for just $5—and it’s packed with practical worksheets to help you feel more in control, even on unpredictable days.
​Grab your copy here.

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Until next time,

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April Smith | Chronic Illness Adaptability Guide
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Owner & Founder of The Thriving Spoonie​
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Take control of your energy and routine—grab The Complete Guide to Daily Chronic Illness Management and start thriving today.

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April Smith | The Thriving Spoonie

đź’ŞI create resources to help people adapt to living with chronic illness so they can thrive.

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