🤺 Fighting Your Body Won’t Help—But This Will


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Hi Reader,

When I was first diagnosed with Idiopathic Intracranial Hypertension, I felt completely lost. I couldn’t imagine how I’d ever adjust to a life where my body no longer worked the way I expected it to. I fought against it—pushing myself too hard, trying to prove that I could still do everything I used to. But that only led to more pain, exhaustion, and frustration.

The turning point came when I stopped resisting and started accepting my chronic illness. Not in a “just be positive” kind of way (because let’s be real, that’s not helpful), but in a way that allowed me to acknowledge my limits without letting them define me.

I originally wrote about this mindset shift in January 2023, but as I revisited the post recently, I realized there was so much more I wanted to say. That’s why I’ve updated it—making it even more relevant, engaging, and full of actionable ways to find peace in the midst of chronic illness.

Why Acceptance Matters

If you’ve ever felt like you’re fighting a never-ending battle with your own body, I want you to know that you’re not alone. The pressure to keep up with the world as if nothing has changed is so real—but pushing through at all costs isn’t sustainable.

The reality is, acceptance doesn’t mean giving up. It means creating a life that works for you. It means shifting the way you set goals, adjusting expectations without abandoning your dreams, and recognizing that you deserve to build a fulfilling life—even if it looks different than you planned.

And that’s exactly what this updated post is all about.

Read the Updated Post Now

I’d love for you to check out the newly refreshed post:

👉 How to Find Peace by Accepting Your Chronic Illness​

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If this resonates with you, I’d be so grateful if you’d share it with a friend who might need to hear this too. We all need reminders that we’re not alone in this journey. 💙

With care,

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April Smith | Chronic Illness Adaptability Guide
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Owner & Founder of The Thriving Spoonie​
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April Smith

I assist those with chronic illness by providing practical strategies to master resilience, embrace adaptability, and find joy on their terms.

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